tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5722559918647661718.post7878719196043033327..comments2015-07-16T16:43:07.940-07:00Comments on Auntie V's Life and Cookery: THIS IS THE SWEATER I WORE TO MY SISTER’S FUNERALVictoria Harthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03704964021598202942noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5722559918647661718.post-24050346434688694452010-02-18T17:43:44.754-08:002010-02-18T17:43:44.754-08:00Dearest Victoria, Sharing your pain with us takes ...Dearest Victoria, Sharing your pain with us takes you one step closer to less pain but as we all know who have lost a beloved, the pain never really goes away completely. Keeping a part of it can help us to move forward and truly appreciate our love ones, the good in our lives, the beauty of the world that remains because we see it that way. And again, a lesson taught by your willingness to shareAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5722559918647661718.post-61900079768987859802010-02-07T12:51:01.188-08:002010-02-07T12:51:01.188-08:00Victoria -- I'm glad you had fun doing a task ...Victoria -- I'm glad you had fun doing a task that's challenging. I always believe laughter makes any task easier:~)<br /><br />Regarding the sweater,you will know when it's time to let it go and the time will come!Sarahttp://www.sarahealy.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5722559918647661718.post-14561425768758824332010-02-04T14:18:35.630-08:002010-02-04T14:18:35.630-08:00Rhonda, I'm gonna take your advice and never w...Rhonda, I'm gonna take your advice and never wear anything I truly like to a funeral again. It's good.<br />thanksVictoria Harthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03704964021598202942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5722559918647661718.post-75064402668015181222010-02-04T14:16:29.040-08:002010-02-04T14:16:29.040-08:00Thank you Angelia for you kind words and for stopp...Thank you Angelia for you kind words and for stopping by.<br /><br />Hello Rhonda, I'm so happy to see you here. Yes, a brightly colored soft sweater is a good fix, like a long warm hug. XOVictoria Harthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03704964021598202942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5722559918647661718.post-86420614333453817662010-02-04T13:24:58.379-08:002010-02-04T13:24:58.379-08:00I so understand, Victoria, about clothing and memo...I so understand, Victoria, about clothing and memories. I remember every article of clothing I have ever worn to a funeral. I'm careful now to not wear anything I really like to a funeral, because I know I'll never enjoy wearing it again.<br /><br />You need a NEW sweater. One in a bright color, a little loose and very soft. You need a NEW sweater to wear while making happy memories.<Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5722559918647661718.post-78840838390596108312010-02-03T21:25:44.522-08:002010-02-03T21:25:44.522-08:00i can totally understand keeping the sweater. i th...i can totally understand keeping the sweater. i think i still have the dress i wore to my mothers funeral. someone that hasn't gone through the same scenerio isn't quite able to comprehend the feelings-even though you know keeping it isn't going to bring them back, there is a need there than only keeping it will fill. bless you sister. much love, angeliaentsalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10911725671698155309noreply@blogger.com